Funny But True - One Way to Avoid Relationship Problems

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Is there anyone in the world who hasn't had any issue in his/her relationship(s)? I seriously would love to see the person. So if you find one, please let me know. Lol. It's 99.99% impossible! The reason is as simple as what a kindergarten joke: every human is made different. So our differences make us struggle for balance.  You definitely think differently from your spouse. Parents think differently from their children. A student's thoughts are nowhere near Mr. Professor's. Yet, all these people must co-exist? But how can this be without some conflict/disagreement? Once that 'struggle' is there, we must have issues - it's a must. However, some people are too sweet and great. These ones control their issues without an hour passing on the clock, without a strange ear hearing. These ones are capable of foreseeing what will bring up an issue and they avoid it; or they control the whole thing. So, time to clap for this set of people. They're wise. It isn't easy to face life challenges and come out victorious.

Since we all know both scientifically and unscientifically that problems must exist in humanity, how, then can we solve them? Ooops! That's too broad. Let's make it this way: since we all know and agree that humans must have issues in their relationships, how, then, can we solve them? As there are legions of problems to face in a relationship, so are there legions of solutions. On top of that, different relationships/marriages come with their peculiar problems. So, even if a set of identical twin bothers marry a set of identical twin sisters each, these two couples will surely have different problems; it can never be identical problems (though a few cases might be the same). In this space, only one means of finding relationship solutions shall be discussed, as seen below.

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People don't just like reading! What a world! Nearly every of human problem is hidden in writings scattered all over the world, from print to electronic. Some like reading, but certainly not reading voluminous stuffs. I'm scared of these dudes, so I always pray for the grace to keep mine short. People and different organisations have said a lot about relationship. I keep wondering why someone would face problems in his/her marriage, yet refuses to read articles, or watch movies on having a peaceful marriage, some of which could provide soothing answers to your problems. Nobody told me planet earth was going to be this funny. Lol. Most humans know their problems, but won't stand up and look for the solutions. Some know both the problem and the solution, but don't care to go get it. Like thousands of others out there, Dove's Heart has written a couple of stuffs that can prove helpful. Someone in need won't bother to read. Others will read but won't bother to implement them. Others would love to read, but you never told them about this blog.

I believe in a world where humans should live as peaceful and loving as the feeling you have when visiting the stream very early in the morning, or late at night. You probably must have visited a desperately calm water environment before. Or, have you ever come across an environment where the works of nature play out in a very calm way? Really, nature blends and creates peace. Humans don't! Someone saw on YouTube how humans punish animals and commented that he's regretted being human. As one of my contributions to a peaceful world, I decided to come up with this blog. Get knowledge and have peace. Live a life of peace, a life of love. Share with others the things you know can help them grow. Encourage them to take a step. I started writing these things not because I wanted an award, but to make humans see solutions to their problems. I've  heard and seen many broken relationships and marriages. People's pains worry me a lot. It burns my heart seeing people pass through tears in their homes. Make it part of your life to read, study, and ask questions concerning your problems. Dedicate special periods to digging deep into subjects bordering on your issues. You can't be the same afterwards.

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People who read, watch movies, ask questions, or live sociably are more likely going to have solutions to their problems quicker than those who don't. There are answers hidden in books and articles, in actions and words of those actors you watch in movies, in the many places you visit with friends. It's good to live a quiet life. But you're likely going to get help from people by being sociable. So, rise up and build your home!
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